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Have you ever wanted to woo a girl, and make her sigh dreamily when she thinks about you? Here are some great ways to impress her.
Steps:
Show interest, and show her that you would like to get to know her and you were happy to meet her or talk to her.
Always look into her eyes when speaking to her. That subtly will make her see that you are really taking an interest. Just be careful not to get lost in her eyes when she's talking, otherwise the only thing you'll have to respond with is "Wow, you've got pretty eyes." (see the first point).
Be sensitive and caring. Let her cry on your shoulder if she's sad. Make her smile when she's feeling crummy. However remember that she wants a man in her life so don't be supplicating.
Lead. She wants to be the wooed and not do the wooing so be the first to initiate touch (non-sexual and sexual). Be the one that comes in for the kiss. NEVER ask for ideas for what to do on the date, make plans and a back-up. If she knows of something better she will tell you.
Whisper in her ear. Girls love this.
If you have little siblings, nieces, or nephews, show her that you really care for them. Play with them, watch over and protect them, show the girl that they look up to you.
Dress nicely. Use an attractive cologne if necessary. Be very hygienic with her.
Help others in front of her. (although you should always) Help the poor and needy to show that how much you care for others. But, show some more care for her, which she thinks that, this is only for her.
For Valentine's Day (if you celebrate it) be sweet or thoughtful instead of showy and cliched. A dozen red roses may be the traditional romantic gift, but most girls will be better pleased with a few of their favorite flowers tied with a red, pink, or white ribbon. Actually remembering a girl's favorites will endear you to her more than any elaborate scheme. If it's early in the relationship, though, and you don't know her favorites yet, a teddy bear (or other stuffed animal) is a perfectly fine fallback gift. Do something original to you. But make sure you make her feel comfortable as well.
Pick up lines are OK as long as they aren't obnoxious (meaning avoid the vast majority) or overtly sexual to someone you don't know.
Make her laugh. Girls love guys with a great sense of humor. That doesn't mean you should never take anything seriously, or else you'll come off as a clown.
Learn to dance and learn dance etiquette. Take some ballroom classes to build your confidence, so you learn to lead a girl through a song. Girls love guys that can dance.
Take the first step, if you're going to take her in your arms and sweep her off her feet on the first date, you're about as oblivious as a fish. Girls like the fact that they're being wooed so it doesn't help if you're that 'what's his face' at the corner thinking if you should make a move. That dreamy "eye to eye" across the room crap belongs in movies. If you're going to ever win the prize, you've got to tell the prize you want it.
Break the ice. This is one of most seemingly dicey things to do, but once you have done this, holding a conversation and laughing will be easy, and you will begin to share a good rapport. a good laugh is always a smart way to break the ice. for e.g - you would show this webpage to her, and have a laugh over what is written and the whole idea of having such a page as well.
Learn to be spontaneous. Taking an improve acting class can help with ideas for breaking the ice, and can help you be confident with talking to new people. Ideas flow, and it becomes easier to enter into and disengage from conversation, and can help you be more comfortable with any situation.
Get close with the girl's family. Knowing that she has her family's approval makes her more comfortable, and knowing that you are a likable person is another plus, find out what her interests are and make an effort to connect with them.
Have quality time with her, and always show appreciation.
Always give care for everything she says.
Tips:
- Keep it cool, because even if a girl doesn't like you now, chances are that if you play your cards right you'll eventually spark an interest.
- Wear a nice fragrance, but be warned, it can also repulse her. Think before you decide to put it on.
- Don't stalk girls. They will start to avoid you. However, dropping cute text messages every now and then is okay.
- Remember, girls are totally unpredictable. Some will be sure to act like they DON'T like you at first, because they're afraid of giving you that idea and in turn giving you a big ego and/or making things awkward between you two. She will ONLY respond with genuine interest when she is sure you have an interest in her.
- Girls like guys who are sweet and sensitive. Be nice to all her friends and you'll then become more approachable.
- Don't confuse her and send mixed signals. Ex: one day you're teasing her, the next you're admiring her..she will get confused and flustered and may give up on you.
- Girls don't like nasty breath. Eat mints regularly and brush teeth often.
- Don't just act natural - be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not.
- Nothing is sexier than confidence. However, nothing is as unattractive as arrogance, or more annoying than a needy lack of self-esteem. Try with everything you have to find the drawing medium which is confidence.
- Play a sports team, and be friends with a lot of people. She won't feel so intimidated if she knows you're tight with other girls also. Unless she's insecure about herself or your relationship, then be very clear that those are girl friends and she's your girlfriend.
- Tell her what she wants to hear. Simple. Of course, don't lie to her, otherwise she won't trust you.
- Shower often, and not just with water. Actually use soap, and scrub really hard if you have failed to do this step before. If you just came form PE or playing a sport, (again) scrub really hard. Try to see her reaction when you pass by. Some girls really hate guys with a nasty odor.
- Fashion isn't just for girls... it's for guys to be recognized by girls. Get a nice pair of shoes. A pair of cool jeans will also look cool when bought from a fashionable teen store. Same goes for shirts. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a week.
- Calling her pretty or beautiful is more appreciated than hot or sexy, in fact, try to avoid the latter as much as possible.
- Tease her around and joke about who she likes, and bring it up often. Then she will get a sense you might be putting down all those guys because you're waiting for her to realize the guy she should be with is YOU.
- Get in shape.
- Ask her how she's doing and try to notice her moods. If she's sad, comfort her. If she is mad, ask her "What's wrong?" If she does not want to talk about it, don't press.
- Put your arm on her shoulder and casually lean against her. It gets them every time. If she blushes or melts under your weight, that's a good sign!
- Don't wait till forever to make your move. Ask her out the minute you think she likes you back, otherwise she'll think you're just in it for some action or that you're a player.
- Treat her with respect, and don't say rude things about her behind her back.
- Never let her pay for a date UNLESS she absolutely insists.
- Try to be subtle when getting to know her, if she considers you a "friend" it may make her less willing to date you.
- Make sure that you are not mean to her, ever. Girls simply do not accept that.
- But at times reverse and remember that when a girl doesn't say anything thousands of thoughts are going through her head at that moment. . . maybe about you!
- Compliment her in a non-stalker way. If she's wearing an interesting necklace, say "That's an interesting necklace" or "That's a cool necklace" NOT "I always like your necklaces" *scary grin*.
- If you think something's wrong, ask her. Remember what she says and what she is saying. It might come up later on in the future.
- Cute teasing is okay. Something like "well you always look pretty" etc., in a messing-around voice is fine. Going over the top, and constantly putting her down will just make her angry and she'll probably tell her friends. This will result in general angry, vengeful people. This is not exactly what we're aiming for.
- If you have that kind of relationship, walk up behind her and gently hug her around the waist. Whisper in her ear softly so she knows it's you.
- Learn to like what she likes, but not in too many ways.
- Don't be clingy. Be close, keeping in touch every once in awhile, but remember she has friends and doesn't (or shouldn't) want to hang out with just you.
- Best friends are a great resource. If you can get close to her best friend, it can be a gateway to learn things about the girl. for example, every girl has talked with her friends about romantic things she wants to happen to her or maybe even a romantic movie that she really likes that you can take ideas from. you use this information to give her something that is more meaningful than all that cheesy standard romance stuff. Also, a good review from friends can only help you, while a bad review could put some serious doubts into the girls head.
- MOST IMPORTANT- always support her.
- Learn to play an instrument. Girls love guys who can serenade them by playing music.
- Be protective for her. Girls love to be defended not to be the defender.
- If there is a love triangle between you and your friend, don't be the alpha male, Girls like the natural type of boys not the showy, cliche, and very stylistic.
source (http://www.wikihow.com/Woo-a-Girl)
